Brendaloves

SMART

For a guy:

1) Treat your relationship like a career. Like a job, do not expect it to last a lifetime.
2) Women will never forgive you if you make them pay. Be the first one to offer to pay.
3) Know when to hold on and when to let go. Prolonging a bad relationship will do you no good.
4) Don't play the blame game. Be a gentleman, and let the trivial things be.
5) Don't go back for sex. It only complicates matters.
6) Don't call her when you're drunk. We all know that this is a potent anti-aphrodisiac.
7) Resist the need to show and tell. Gossiping about your ex not only throws a bad light on you, it may also make her bitter.
8) Don't show off a new girlfriend. It doesn't go well with the ladies, you look needy and desparate.
9) And please, please don't sulk or walk around with a long face. No girl likes to date a sulky guy, still holding on to his past.

How to manage a breakup:
1) Do not cry in front of him/her.Hug, say goodbye, wish luck with life, and leave with grace(no, not at all).
2) Go to your best friends for a shoulder to cry on. They will be able to make you laugh and say all the right things to make you feel better.
3) Don't hesitate to cry... have a long good cry.
4) Cut off all contact with him/her for at least a month; this will help the healing process because you won't be talking to him/her all the time(will do).

Well. I strongly agree with it (At least the point number 2). Like come on! going out with a girl and not paying for all? It jus simply MINUS 70% of your whole impression! And also, i will not cry in front of the guy who break up with me. At least leaving with grace and not be embarrassed when seeing him around after the whole thing is over?! holding on to a relationship which love doesnt exit anymore is a torture. I will rather choose to let go of him. Though i know it would be hard. Especially if being together for years?(It's really hard, i know) But still, have to end it and move on. It's kind of dependent on him. Use to him being around u and all. And also ppl! Dont do anything foolish(especially to yourself). Brenda is a strong girl!